A Worthy Wife
Yesterday we laid my Grandma Elouise to rest. I had the great privilege of reading at her funeral. It was a gorgeous (although muggy) day and the funeral and burial planned by my mother and grandfather was just “perfect” as Grandma would say. The readings reflected the life of Grandma Elousie and the music was gorgeous. It was wonderful to be surrounded by my aunts, uncles, cousins and many friends who came to be with us. It was also wonderful to sit in that front pew next to my husband and hold our daughters. Grandma loved children and would have been so proud of Ellie’s stellar mass behavior (Grace too!).
I wanted to share with you the Old Testament reading that was chosen for the funeral and that I got to read. It was so fitting of Grandma.
Proverbs 31 10-31
When one finds a worthy wife, her value is far beyond pearls.
Her husband, entrusting his heart to her, has an unfailing prize.
1 She brings him good, and not evil, all the days of her life.
She obtains wool and flax and makes cloth with skillful hands.
2 Like merchant ships, she secures her provisions from afar.
She rises while it is still night, and distributes food to her household.
She picks out a field to purchase; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She is girt about with strength, and sturdy are her arms.
3 She enjoys the success of her dealings; at night her lamp is undimmed.
She puts her hands to the distaff, and her fingers ply the spindle.
She reaches out her hands to the poor, and extends her arms to the needy.
She fears not the snow for her household; all her charges are doubly clothed.
She makes her own coverlets; fine linen and purple are her clothing.
Her husband is prominent at the city gates as he sits with the elders of the land.
She makes garments and sells them, and stocks the merchants with belts.
4 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs at the days to come.
She opens her mouth in wisdom, and on her tongue is kindly counsel.
She watches the conduct of her household, and eats not her food in idleness.
Her children rise up and praise her; her husband, too, extols her:
“Many are the women of proven worth, but you have excelled them all.”
5 Charm is deceptive and beauty fleeting; the woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
Give her a reward of her labors, and let her works praise her at the city gates.
I have more to share on the funeral and remembering Grandma but life is a tad bit crazy right now. We’ve been busy showing our house and even have an offer on the table. I also have been trying to plan Ellie’s birthday party and get Grace’s darn announcements out. (I should maybe start on her wedding invites now).